Please reconsider medicating your son. There is a lot of info on FR about this topic, I didn't check your signup date so I don't know if you've been here a while or not. There is a homeschooling ping list, you should get on it, and there is literally tons of info about homeschooling, and many of the homeschooling threads also discuss Ritalin and its affects (and similar drugs used on children). I've got some stuff saved somewhere, so if you can't find anything, freepmail me later and I'll get it for you.
No kid needs to have amphetimines shoved at them in order to be productive people. Every kid is different, they don't all prosper with the same learning methods and treatment. Some kids need more one on one, some need more physical activities, some need more handwork - thing hammers and nails, or knitting needles and yarn. Some are artistic, some are more musically inclined, some do math for fun.
Your child does not need to become a speed addict. That's all Ritalin is, I know adults who had Ritalin when they were kids and they are angry to this day their parents forced it on them.
I'm not asking for opinions on whether I should medicate my son or not but thanks anyways.
I have heard just the opposite of stories like yours and some on your side as well. I believe whatever I choose it will be the right decision for my son.
I've been around here a while and am very conservative. I myself have grown up with dyslexia, hyperactivity, auditory issues, dysgraphia, and all sorts of other problems, including depression. And I was never medicated. I feel whatever I decide I think I know enough based on my experiences what is best and what is not.
It is a tough decision and has been on my mind over a year now so it isn't something I have taken lightly. Like I said though, he isn't on meds now and I'm not sure if he will be ever. I'm patient and doing what I can for my son and know if i choose meds for him it is right and if I don't than that is right. No one can tell me if I choose something for my son if it is wrong or not. Everyone situations are different.
Unless you're a doctor, it's none of your business.