re: your comment concerning women's overreaction to men's porn viewing:
I think this, like most things, are different for different people. I have a friend that right now is living hell with her husband who has refused to have sex with her since she doesn't look like the 'women on the internet'. What's she to do? She's got 3 little kids, and is pretty decent, a little overweight, but really pretty and friendly.
I think that she should take her husband's credit and spring for a complete overhaul... I mean all the 'women on the internet' have probably resorted to enhancements of all types, why should she have to compete with that if her husband will deprive her of the same perks.
What do you think?
Sarah
I think your friend has more problems than not looking like the girls on the internet. If he wasn't looking at them, he's probably find another reason not to have sex with her. It's easy for women to blame something other than themselves. And sometimes it's really not their fault. That marriage has bigger problems than porn.
I think she should take her husband's HOUSE and spring for someone who doesn't play with himself on the Internet.
And just what does THIS STUD look like now???
My wife is no longer the fox I married, and I am no longer the Playgirl Centerfold. But we are realists- people grow up, old, and out. That's what the whole DEAL is about.
Grrrr.
Dump the husband who doesn't know fantasy from reality...and use the credit to spruce of the new digs....and take care of the kids. To hell with him.