You know what? I figure, since my family is not supporting me in any way, shape or form, I have the right to voice my own opinions about life, love and S-E-X, and if they don't like it, they can not bother to send me any Christmas or birthday cards.
They never do (never have and most likely never will) so I'm not going to go bankrupt because they don't talk to me. Don't get me wrong. I love my family. I do what I can to let them know it and if they get ugly for something I've said or done, then THEY own the "problem" they want me to have.
It's not my job to change them (or theirs to change me) so I just figure I'll live the best way I know how, and let the Lord sort it out on the Other Side.