"yet in Ezra he commanded the men of Israel at that time to divorce their wives"
Well wasn't that to divorce their idolatrous wives? Again we see that God is a God of mercy considering what COULD have happened....
But God hates divorce... period. Right? That means never get divorced or you'll be judged. Isn't that what you're saying? Yet the bible says God commanded the men of israel to divorce those women who weren't His. Isn't that right?
So all of those divorced people that you judge... do you ask them first if they were married to an idolator before they got divorced?