Exactly. We take care of family first, because that is our first duty, then those around us beyond the family. I don't depend on the government to do my duty for me. For me it's a holy obligation that I accept.
I pray and do what I can.
This is how I was raised, how I try to act, and how I have tried to raise my kids.
...and God bless you for it. Tens of millions feel and act just as you do and that is what keeps this nation together and prosperous despite the worst efforts of the libs/dems/rinos/leftists/etc.