Are you actually suggesting HIV is not a virus? Because if so, you would be wrong. You can see HIV under a microscope. You can measure it. You can detect it. It's a real, tangible viral strain.
AIDS is not a virus. It is a syndrom. It is the human body's reaction to having the HIV virus. You can have HIV in your body for some time before manifesting full-blown AIDS. AIDS is real too. It is a complication of having HIV.
There is nothing fictitious about either AIDS or HIV, so what are you getting at? Are you suggesting that because there are activists (*gasp* - gay activists) attempting to spread the word about the threat HIV and AIDS represent that you can be dismisive of the threat HIV represents?
I knew a hemophiliac who got HIV from a blood transfusion in the 80's. He was only 14 when he died. His mother couldn't bear to tell people how her son died because of the social stigma attached to having AIDS. She didn't want people to think her son had been gay. He was a little kid who kept his terminal illness secret because of people who say things like you wrote. I wish you could've looked him in the eyes and told him he was dying of a political agenda.
Don't become one of Fred Phelps' hate zombies and think it's OK to ignore a real disease because it mainly infects people you don't like. Because you would be wrong.
You can't see HIV under a microscope. Well you can't see any virus under a microscope, but I mean - you cannot detect HIV in any way. To date it has not been isolated.
To isolate a retrovirus you need to:
A) Create an isolate. i.e. create a culture from putatively infected material and take a micrograph from the 1.16 density band which shows ONLY particles with the correct characteristics of an exogenous retrovirus. Your band then contains an isolate of the putative retrovirus.
B) Prove that what you have is viral. This means that it not only looks like a virus, but is also infectious. You must be able to take your isolate, infect something with it, grow more virus, and be able to get another picture/proof of isolate.
This process has not been carried out sucessfully. The AIDs industry has not managed to isolate the HIV virus, and its been over twenty years now. You have to wonder what the hold-up is.
I am indeed saying that HIV has not been isolated and proven to exist
Please don't fall into the trap of attributing strange motives to me. I am sorry to say that if he died when your post suggests he died, your HIV-positive friend almost certainly (90% chance) died from liver failure. He was killed with multiple 1000 mg doses of the lethally poisonous chemotherapy drug AZT. This is what I mean by a disease with an iatrogenic cause (iatrogenic = caused by doctors). No virus need apply.