The only gay Catholic I know is committed to a celibate life.
Sez, and I papaphrase, maybe we are born this way but it's up to us to avoid sin. In other words - far from lowering his standards, he insists on keeping the bar as high as possible.
You won't see him interviewed by the MSM.
I believe the Catholic Church does not condemn being gay as sinful -- it is acting upon one's homosexual tendencies by engaging in sexual relations that is considered sinful.
I've come across a few men in my time that I thought had to be gay, but they never had partners. They were fine in my eyes as well as in good standing with their churches.