IMO, the Pope came to the window one last time for Terri. He wanted us to see what happens to a human being without nutrition. He hadn't been able to eat himself for a couple of weeks. IMO He came to his window to show us his suffering and to remind us of Terri's suffering. It worked. I can still see him in that window.
The best and most decent approach, would have been to have kindly and directly explained it to me, instead of the approach you chose to take.