"You can call it anything you like since we have suspended reality around here lately."
REALITY? You make your call because you trust your husband. You are fine with a law being made from a judge that no other judge has a problem with and rubber stamps it, NOW proclaimed the Rule of Law.
Judges were never intended to create laws and you just gave your approval. LIVE with it. That is REALITY!
The judge ruled based on the testimony of the husband. That's all. End of story.