still that's got to have been hard on you and a marriage, when you aren't able to at least come up for a breath every now and again. Not saying I sympathise with her!!!...very stupid and selfish of her to let 19 years go down the drain for a slight change in schedule or for an aberration that in the longterm would have benefitted you both. Sometimes I *wish* my hubby had longer hours...then I wouldn't see him stressing about paying the bills, especially since I am a stay at home mom and am homeschooling now.
GOOD LUCK!!