Oh come on!
If some chick wants to feel my breasts before I get on a plane, fine. As long as she and her male counterparts do it to Mr. & Mrs. Arab behind me as well. My kids are getting on that plane. Do it, make them safe.
My hubby flew the Wednesday before Thanksgiving. He said it was not bad at all. I think people are looking to be hostile.
Compared to most countries, going through a US airport is a cakewalk.