To which I say: I agree! I'm not gloating in a sense that I want to make them feel depressed--I honestly don't, and when I've seen some of them this week I recall that it might have been me with the long face mumbling about how this country isn't the one I thought it was.
But I can't help feeling good about this election, and I'll be damned if I'm gonna pretend it doesn't feel good. They sure as hell would be gloating a lot more openly than I am.
You nailed it. There is a difference between feeling good, ie., satisfaction with being the winner and gloating, ie., feeling superior to your fellow American.
There are Democrats that I wouldn't even think of inviting in my home, but there are also Republicans whom also would remain on the doorstep.