You've been cyber-cruising again today. Wouldn't it be nice if those intent on destroying us could get it that it doesn't have to be that way....life is good here. Snip following from psychiatric site:
Hatred, I propose, is a complex, structured derivative of the affect rage that expresses several wishes: to destroy a bad object, to make it suffer and to control it. Of course if EOM is narcissistic, then he's erroneously envisioning himself as hero, leader, or link in the chain of wannabe evil satanic tyrants of the world. If so, then there certainly is a large "L" imprinted on his forehead.
Thank you Cindy for the links - who needs to buy books - just look for Cindy's posts and plan to sit awhile!