I'm not condemning you. And I'm not sure there *are* any "easy answers". I was just pointing out that it's easy to fall into double standards if we're not careful.
Actually, we cannot compare the two. It was estimated that a million people would die in an invasion of Japan. The two nukes actually saved lives. There is still an ongoing controversy about the morality of Dresden.
I still stand by my statement that I am glad I am not in charge. However, I cannot advocate the use of nuclear weapons.