So your solution to this is trusting the Federal government?
And you don't see what's wrong with that picture?
The Federal government promised to "fix" the high price of Cable television, it's gone up immensely since they got involved.
The Federal government promised to fix the high cost of airline travel once, it wasn't until they left the airlines alone that pricing dropped precipitously.
Did the number of abortions in the US go up or down since the Feds got involved in the issue?
Haven't you wondered why the gay rights lobby is not fighting you tooth and nail on this idea of a Constitutional Amendment?
Because they understand that a Constitutional Amendment will take years to get to vote, and by then, they'll have won the war at the State level.
Once you have a million married gay couples in the US, the fight is over.
Quit looking to the Feds to help, and batten down the hatched in your State.
Wrong, wrong, wrong. The solution is to prohibit the Federal government from forcing other states into recognizing another state's societal lunacy.