[B4Ranch]

ping

[Moose4]

So you're gonna divorce George and go sleep around with Lurch? OK.

}:-)4

[ClintonBeGone]

I found out my partner is cheating on me! These darn questions keep coming into my brain. What do I do now? I need help making a decision and I need it now!

First you need to get more comfortable with calling her your wife.

[farmfriend]

Rights, farms, environment ping.
Let me know if you wish to be added or removed from this list.
I don't get offended if you want to be removed.

[jwalburg]

I found this helpful

Jim Robinson's statement

[Bluntpoint]

Call Oprah, she feels for folks who feel like you feel...cause you have feelings!

Further, quit daydreaming about sleeping with George!

[FITZ]

Well --- you don't have to decide right now. See if anything changes in the next few months.

[sauropod]

Oh man! Flame bait.

Time to suit up in the asbestos underwear ;-).

After what I've seen on a couple of other threads this afternoon on the forum, you are in for it.

Keep up the good fight! 'Pod

[Rebelbase]

The analogy is rambling and doesn't tread into the same moral grounds as a spouse cheating.

[jpsb]

Do what I do, slap the crap out of her and by a chasity belt.

Only kidding! I am not even married! But I do beatup the GOP from time to time.

[MEG33]

I hesitate to give advice about the break up of a long term relationship.

If you are going to become an embittered partner,always suspicious of every move,thinking the worst and feeling used and abused,I suggest you break it off and move as far away as posible.

Beware of falling for the next pretty face that comes along.

Perhaps,with time,good relations can be reestablished.You may become friends,though no longer"in love".

Sincerely,Ann L

[dawn53]

Let's see if I got this straight:

You're a prostitute to Mexicans.
Vincente Fox is a pimp.
A "heavy leash" is around the neck of the Border Patrol.
George is your unfaithful partner.

It's beginning to sound like a plot of one of those soap operas on Spanish TV.

[Dan(9698)]

I am sure I would stay married. You can't file for devorce if you are dead.

[Mark was here]

Seems to me a better analogy for the Federal Government would be more of a Rapist than a Lover... If you dont "put out" to the Feds you are threatened with violence and imprisonment, with some one you love there is no threats.

[WhiteGuy]

Your Honor, As I stand here under the American flag, I am requesting that you to grant me a divorce from the Republican Party, and our President. I am refusing to be a prostitute for the Mexican people any longer. I am refusing to give them my freedoms and my liberty which I have earned. This request is based upon this testimony and the hundreds of documents I have previously provided this your court.



Nuff said.

[mombonn]

My advice: Don't drink before writing vanity posts. It may have sounded clever and profound, but it isn't.

[sonserae]

Here's the deal...When a woman cheats, she's longing for emotional closeness. When a man cheats, he's longing for physical closeness. When a woman gets to the point of cheating, it can be dangerous because that means she's bonded "emotionally" with that person enough to want to sleep with them. That is more difficult to get over. When men cheat, they may love their wives, but seek more physical pleasure outside the marriage. They don't have to bond with the one they are cheating on. So....the marriage can be reconciled when the man stops cheating but it rarely happens the other way around because the woman has already severed the emotional bond with the husband in order to open herself up emotionally to someone else.

In your case, the marriage was most likely in trouble even before she cheated. There was some emotional needs that weren't getting met that forced her to look outside the home. That is where you need to look at what mistakes you have made. Maybe if you realize some of the nurturing, caring, cherishing, adoring, emotional support that your wife might have needed that you failed to see can be turned around, she might give you another chance.

The fact is, no one can change anyone...but everyone can change themselves. If there is a transition in you, things might work out...But...she may be a woman who because of her bad childhood or lack of morals, your being who you are or changing won't help.

Say a prayer and hope for the best....

[international american]

Here is the problem....and a very serious one indeed
Best, IA

Posted by international american to WhyisaTexasgirlinPA; All
On General Interest (Chat) 01/31/2004 9:37:28 AM PST #445 of 462

This will sober up the Bush is too liberal crowd real fast:)

Here are the issues where critics accuse John Kerry of being too liberal to win:

1. Against the death penalty in almost all cases.

2. Voted many times against tax cuts.

3. Supported killing military programs, including the B-1 and B-2 bombers.

4. Voted against banning "partial-birth" abortions and against parental notification when minors have abortions.

5. Voted against Defense of Marriage Act, which permits states to refuse to recognize gay marriages in other states.

6. Voted against the 1991 Gulf War.

7. Voted against $87 billion to support U.S. troops and rebuild Iraq.

8. Called for taxing guns and ammunition to pay for anti-crime programs.

9. Pushed to cut CIA funding - then griped about poor intelligence after 9/11.

10. Supported furloughs for first-degree murderers.

[Lazamataz]

Would you stay married if your partner was cheating on you?

Yes.

I would give that woman one more chance, and subject her activities to additional scrutiny.

Everyone deserves ONE second chance.

[Lazamataz]

Argh. You got me. I read the headline, not the article.

You suck. You get no second chance.