Yea well, since your eyes "have looked over Jordan and seen," you've insights many others will never know.
Just don't forget to help others along way when you feel you've gotten yourself straightened out to your own satisfaction.
And try doubly hard to do one other thing, too.
In spite of your own hurt, leave the old wounds of other's, to heal.
Child's play for a guy like you, Laz.
...& a sure sign of manhood.
And it annoys them when you try.