Sorry, my post wasn't directed at you. It was meant as a more general statement but it unfortunately does cast you in a bad light. And yes, as riri stated, it is the same for women as for men (but we can only acknowledge that intellectually).
You're not the one that I was directing my annoyance at, but thank you anyway. It's remarkable, I could have come on FR and slammed my ex-husband so easily just by telling the truth of what happened. However, I thought that it would be terrible of me to do so. And I still stand by that. I haven't posted much of anything of the divorce, the events leading up to it, nor anything to do with his character or personality. But, he feels it's ok to do that to me. I don't want to be put in the position of replying, but I am tired of the way I am being portrayed. Maybe that's something he should place in his journal: "act more like the way John Wayne would".
What happened between us is private and personal. Yet I still see things splashed all about. Tell me hopespringseternal, what's a FReeper chick to do?!?