[January24th]

"When they are treated with the Three A's, they naturally, and in gratitude and affection, give their women the attention, regard, respect, support and love they want."

Okay, but Dr. Laura needs to write a book for the men who were tutored (or neutered) by clueless women. The don't NATURALLY respond when their nature hasn't been nurtured correctly. What a dream world she lives in!

[MEGoody]

"The don't NATURALLY respond when their nature hasn't been nurtured correctly."

If the guy is decent at heart, he will. But it takes patience and probably some plain communication. After all, men aren't mind readers any more than women are.

[Quix]

I don't think she lives in a dream world.

She would likely agree with you.

She might disagree about how to change that status quo.

Most men are idiots about male/female relationships and relationships in general.

Men are good at conquests, fighting, working hard, achieving by brute or intellectual force etc.

They CAN be good at CERTAIN TYPES OF MALE BONDING and TEAM BUILDING. And SOME of that is transferrable, translatable into terms which their spouses would be thrilled with.

But they need taught and nurtured toward such changes.