[Orangedog]

How many divorced fathers do you know with full custody of his kids? I've never known any myself.

[Pan_Yans Wife]

Full custody granted by the courts? One. Full custody by default, because the ex-wife just dropped out of the picture? Two.

In the first instance, the wife abandoned the children. In the second, the children were used as a tool to get even, and when that didn't work to agitate the ex-husbands anymore, the ex-wives just dropped off the kids.

In all three instances, the children were better off with the father.