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Dads and cads: U-M study tests female preferences for partners
University of Michigan ^ | 22-Oct-2003 | Public release

Posted on 10/22/2003 4:15:45 PM PDT by AdmSmith

"I never saw a woman worth thinking twice about after the anchor was a-peak---on shore it is another thing; and I will laugh, sing, dance, and make love, if they like it, with twenty girls." ?Clement Cleveland, in Walter Scott's "The Pirate"

ANN ARBOR, Mich.---For long-term relationships, women like dads---men who are kind, compassionate and monogamous. But for short-term relationships, women prefer cads---the classic Romantic dark heroes who are dominant, promiscuous and daring.

That's according to a new study by the University of Michigan.

"About 60 percent of the women said they would prefer to have sex with a cad when considering a brief affair," said Daniel Kruger, a social psychologist at the U-M Institute for Social Research (ISR), the world's largest academic social science survey and research organization.

For the study, appearing in the current issue of the journal Human Nature, Kruger and co-authors Maryanne Fisher and Ian Jobling tested evolutionary mating theories using hypothetical scenarios involving classic cad and dad character types from 18th and 19th century British literature. The subjects were an ethnically diverse group of 257 female undergraduates at a large Midwestern university.

The women read passages from Romantic novels describing two prototypical dads and two prototypical cads and answered a series of questions. While the women said they preferred dads for long-term relationships, they found cads more desirable as short-term mates. Their tendency to choose cads over dads increased as the length of the hypothetical relationship decreased.

According to Kruger, the findings imply that the dad versus cad distinction is intuitive to women and remains a key element of contemporary mating strategies. Women's preference for cads for short-term relationships supports what evolutionary psychologists call the "sexy son hypothesis," Kruger said. Even though cads aren't good bets to stick around and help raise children, the genes that make men successful cads will be passed along to their sons, who will increase their mothers' eventual reproductive success by providing numerous grandchildren.

Finally, Kruger noted, the distinction between dads and cads is intuitive enough that women showed a strong preference for dads as potential sons-in-law. Only 13 percent of the women said they would prefer to see an imagined 25-year-old daughter engaged to a cad. "A cad would be less likely to provide paternal support for offspring," Kruger said, "which means that a daughter might turn to the maternal family for help. That could adversely impact the grandmother's overall reproductive success."


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Extended News
KEYWORDS: behavior; crevolist; science
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Another case when a prejudice has been proven right
1 posted on 10/22/2003 4:15:46 PM PDT by AdmSmith
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To: PatrickHenry
Behavioral evolution
2 posted on 10/22/2003 4:16:44 PM PDT by AdmSmith
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To: AdmSmith
But for short-term relationships, women prefer cads---the classic Romantic dark heroes who are dominant, promiscuous and daring.


"Dark"?! I didn't know that they were permitted to use such terminology in academe these days. Imagine the outcry if a Republican politician or conservative commentator suggested that "dark" people were promiscuous!
3 posted on 10/22/2003 4:26:40 PM PDT by Atlas Sneezed
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To: AdmSmith
Here's a newsflash:
Males prefer tawdry trollops for transitory trysts... and modest moralists for matrimonial mooring.

You may have heard of the phenonomen... It's called the Madonna/Whore Complex.


4 posted on 10/22/2003 4:27:30 PM PDT by StatesEnemy
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To: *crevo_list; VadeRetro; jennyp; Junior; longshadow; RadioAstronomer; Scully; Piltdown_Woman; ...
PING. [This ping list is for the evolution side of evolution threads, and sometimes for other science topics. FReepmail me to be added or dropped.]
5 posted on 10/22/2003 4:32:41 PM PDT by PatrickHenry
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To: StatesEnemy
Yep, this "new study" is no brainer old news.
6 posted on 10/22/2003 4:38:10 PM PDT by visualops (I'm not sure what he was wearing, but he did have a tagline.)
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To: AdmSmith
It's always been my contention that girls prefer the man who freaks out their parents the most.

It's the only reason I can think of for my wife to pick the long-haired party biker that I was in my youth...

7 posted on 10/22/2003 4:41:13 PM PDT by ZOOKER
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To: AdmSmith
Well thats nice...
But what does the dad get out of the deal....
a whore?
8 posted on 10/22/2003 4:46:43 PM PDT by joesnuffy (Moderate Islam Is For Dilettantes)
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To: AdmSmith
257 female undergraduates

So, these women were from 18 to what 22 - 27 tops?

Yeah. OK then. Give me a nice stable guy for *any* length of a relationship. Just make sure that he's good in bed. I couldn't imagine being married to someone for the rest of my life and them being a limp noodle in bed. ~shudder
9 posted on 10/22/2003 4:53:32 PM PDT by NotQuiteCricket (http://www.strangesolutions.com)
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To: AdmSmith
This explains my two year dry spell.

Where can a fella get "cad lessons" around here? ;)

Just kidding. I like to respect myself in the morning, and sleeping until noon is not an option.
10 posted on 10/22/2003 4:55:24 PM PDT by Prime Choice (---] Stay the course -- Bush 2004 [---)
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To: visualops
Yep, this "new study" is no brainer old news.

You paid for this study.

How smart does that make you?

</joke joke joke warning will robinson joke joke joke>

11 posted on 10/22/2003 4:58:01 PM PDT by E. Pluribus Unum (Drug prohibition laws help fund terrorism.)
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To: AdmSmith
the genes that make men successful cads

So science has gone from claiming there's a gay gene to claiming there's a cad gene.

Strange that they haven't found a pro-abortion gene.

12 posted on 10/22/2003 5:16:59 PM PDT by JoeSchem
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To: AdmSmith
First of all, this is not news.

Secondly, how many "cads" even have long term relationships? By definition, "cads" will not enter long term relationships - regardless of whether the female admits as to why the relationship to cads was so short.

Third, there is no factor more important to women in choosing a spouse as height - 99% of american women are shorter than their husbands. More women marry homosexuals, criminals, perverts, poor men, hairy men, bald men, ugly men, whatever, than short men.

13 posted on 10/22/2003 5:32:13 PM PDT by waterstraat
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will women abort fetuses for having/not having the cad gene.
14 posted on 10/22/2003 6:22:17 PM PDT by longtermmemmory (Vote!)
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To: Prime Choice
Where can a fella get "cad lessons" around here? ;)


Get a tattoo, and make sure it is where everyone can see it. Chicks dig guys with individualism, and nothing says "I'm a Rebel" like a big old tat. Have the guy at the parlor apply whatever is his most popular ink art and you'll be scoring with the ladies in a few weeks.
15 posted on 10/22/2003 6:37:15 PM PDT by AlbertWang
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To: StatesEnemy
I'm hoping to marry Mary, but I wish to be lovin' Hope.

- Laughing Man, circa 1985

16 posted on 10/22/2003 6:40:38 PM PDT by KevinB
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To: waterstraat
True, but unless you're a man under, say, 5'3, there is a good # of women out there of the same height or shorter.
17 posted on 10/22/2003 6:49:56 PM PDT by College Repub
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To: PatrickHenry
Thanks for the heads up!
18 posted on 10/22/2003 7:57:37 PM PDT by Alamo-Girl
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To: AdmSmith
The best way to obtain and keep a woman is to act like a total loser. Bonus points for criminal behavior, drug use, and general abuse. No, I don't agree with it, but its true.
19 posted on 10/22/2003 8:38:12 PM PDT by ryanjb2
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To: StatesEnemy
"It's called the Madonna/Whore Complex."

I thought Madonna was a whore!

(She certainly dresses and acts like one)...

--Boris

20 posted on 10/23/2003 7:01:34 AM PDT by boris (The deadliest Weapon of Mass Destruction in History is a Leftist With a Word Processor)
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