[WIMom]

That's my worry. If they have a problem later.

[southerngrit]

My experience with this kind of thing has been mixed. My son threw a party when we were in Florida - I knew immediately because there were seven ice chests on my patio and the whole house reeked of Pledge - no way I left it that clean on my way to the beach!!

On the other hand, my oldest daughter threw a party at our home while we were away. She was 21. The hooligans who showed up were who knows what age. The whole thing got completely out of control. She went next door and asked our good friend and neighbor to call the police just to get these creeps out of our house.

My instinct would be to shy away from this - particularly the beer and overnight plans. It's those twenty percent of your daughters' friends you have to worry about.