1) how much due diligence was performed on these wives? Were the main criteria used how good she was in bed and what she looked like in a bathing suit? (If male readers of FR consider other criteria, you would never know it from their posts.)perhaps you're reading a different thead: i don't see a whole lot of sex-n-bikini talk here. i do note some serious consideration of a strong legal bias against men when married, some anecdotes, and some occasionally insightful scriptural references.
i don't forsee this problem going away by some simple prescription for "due diligence" toward the bride-to-be.
I never said there was a lot of sex-and-bikini talk on this thread. What I did say is that there's a lot of it on FR. You think the two subjects are totally unrelated?