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I was a lead engineer working for a VP, he would volunteer to be the note taker in meetings. His philosophy was that the note taker controlled the agenda. I became the meeting note taker and was promoted accordingly.
1 posted on 12/05/2025 5:33:00 AM PST by where's_the_Outrage?
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When this modern wave of feminist stuff first got heavy in the last 55-60 years it was secretaries refusing to get the boss coffee, there was story after story about that growth in the workplace.


2 posted on 12/05/2025 5:37:41 AM PST by ansel12 ((NATO warrior under Reagan, and RA under Nixon, bemoaning the pro-Russians from Vietnam to Ukraine.))
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Damn whiner.


3 posted on 12/05/2025 5:38:22 AM PST by WKUHilltopper
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Imagine if the following was said...

“Men are much better at_____________”


4 posted on 12/05/2025 5:39:52 AM PST by unixfox (Abolish Slavery, Repeal the 16th Amendment)
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I mean it’s not like he asked her to iron his shirt.


5 posted on 12/05/2025 5:40:09 AM PST by dfwgator ("I am Charlie Kirk!")
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If men can lose his job over comments like that, it is all over for men in businesses. HR will ultimately put themselves out of a job when it all collapses.


6 posted on 12/05/2025 5:42:03 AM PST by odawg
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I’ll take things that never happened for $1,000.


7 posted on 12/05/2025 5:42:24 AM PST by HYPOCRACY (Wake up, smell the cat food in your bank account. )
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“Let’s imagine...”

Typical female: Speculusion. They speculate then make conclusions using the fantasy.

eHem: Estrogen Mayhem.


9 posted on 12/05/2025 5:43:41 AM PST by CodeToad
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“””I was a lead engineer working for a VP, he would volunteer to be the note taker in meetings. His philosophy was that the note taker controlled the agenda. I became the meeting note taker and was promoted accordingly.”””


I agree. I was also a note taker and was promoted accordingly over those who liked to talk, talk, talk at meetings.


10 posted on 12/05/2025 5:44:06 AM PST by Presbyterian Reporter
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His philosophy was that the note taker controlled the agenda.

That is true. Control or at least influence over communication is key. My penmanship is poor.

I believe this story was made up. A real boss in the situation would no longer say "women are better at it", but simply say "You are good at it", or "I thought you liked it". He is the lead, so he could assign it to someone else, so it's mot like he would have to take it on.

Some very important and powerful women deal with this better:

11 posted on 12/05/2025 5:44:16 AM PST by Dr. Sivana ("Whatsoever he shall say to you, do ye." (John 2:5))
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There are quite a few websites like this 'Bright Side' that sell viewers to advertisers via rage bait.

Why go through the cost and effort to produce a 30 minute or one hour television special when you can throw out 10 stories, some of which the newly indignant will share with others?

I'd categorize this story as One-That-Never-Happened.

12 posted on 12/05/2025 5:45:45 AM PST by T.B. Yoits
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I can see something like this happening and it isn’t fair to the woman. Its not a huge Feminist issue but people should be mindful of things like this. Its like when bosses ask people who aren’t married to stay late or work on holidays all the time because they don’t have a family.


16 posted on 12/05/2025 5:47:09 AM PST by Opinionated Blowhard (When the people find that they can vote themselves money, that will herald the end of the republic.)
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“Women are best at it.”

That was a stupid thing to say. About the only thing a man can say that is true and unchallengeable is that women are the best at birthing children. Outside of that, they’re in unchartered territory.

wy69


19 posted on 12/05/2025 5:47:36 AM PST by whitney69 (`)
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“Women take better notes“

This guy should have been fired for incompetence.

How can women take the best notes? How can they possibly hear everything that’s going on from the kitchen?


20 posted on 12/05/2025 5:47:49 AM PST by perfect_rovian_storm
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Typical liberal women’s over reaction. Besides, it was not for free she was getting paid. She should have given the gift and note back to him, tell him that she was hired to be a lead engineer and not a secretary, and record it. If he blew a gasket, she would have it recorded and then go to HR. This is an unusual case. In my experience HR departments usually side with the boss, or attempt to placate the employee and do nothing at all. And since she said he ASKED her to take notes and did not demand it he should not have been fired. Imho.


22 posted on 12/05/2025 5:49:29 AM PST by Omnivore-Dan (have to )
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That boss is an idiot. I am not sure how he’s survived in his job long enough to have subordinates. The crap he allegedly pulled wouldn’t have flied in the 1990s, let alone 30 years later.


23 posted on 12/05/2025 5:49:55 AM PST by Vermont Lt
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Wow… what a child without the skills to just talk to him first .
Not the type of person one wants in their company,


24 posted on 12/05/2025 5:52:33 AM PST by HollyB
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It’s a fake story. Never happened. Work of fiction.


25 posted on 12/05/2025 5:53:05 AM PST by ShadowAce
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This was something else.

Idiot boss.


28 posted on 12/05/2025 5:54:53 AM PST by 9YearLurker
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How many female Secretary of States are there? At least one for every blue state and probably some in the red states too. They love their jobs, however ‘secretarial’.


29 posted on 12/05/2025 5:55:49 AM PST by equaviator (Nobody's perfect. That's why they put pencils on erasers!)
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Who’s better at taking notes Male or Female?

Doesn’t matter - Have the meeting recorded, and use Copilot to create a transcription, summary of the meeting including action items, and then send tasks for follow up.


35 posted on 12/05/2025 6:00:24 AM PST by Made In The USA (One and Two and Three and Four and)
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