Both men and women are failing each other and their children. Neither sex is worse. The pathology is awful on both sides. They get involved sexually, back into pregnancy, plan nothing, make a huge mess.
Mass media and politicians figured out how to handle the female sex and have used that to change America, with family law, divorce law, and all the other politics that are breaking up American society.
Look at divorce and who wants it, look at who casually has children and is supported by the government and who votes for all that support.
Our children are being raised by single women because of generations of changes in the law, who was voting for those law makers and those laws?