What is NOT shared with just anyone takes on additional desirability just for its exclusivity.
Alas, the postmodern Marxists are aware that "immodesty can become a powerful tool for change."
Those in my family and friends all choose modesty. I suspect it the far more normal behavior, which is why 1) the media are spewing immodesty so consistently, and 2) those who reject this are "walking away," as we watch the likes of grassroots boycotts of Anheuser-Busch, Target and Disney continue. What a surprise when people vote with their feet and closing wallets.
Rabbi Manis Friedman makes an important observation.