Those in charge of the U.S. military, up to and including the Commander-in-Chief, are giving aid and comfort to the enemies of the United States. The Constitution has a word for that!
I stopped wearing my USNA ring some time ago. I would consider returning it, but I suppose they would just melt it down and reuse it in the “Link in the Chain” program. USNA rings have a small amount of gold from previous graduate rings.
Three of my children went to service academies. I never consciously encouraged them. Today, I would overtly discourage them.