I dunno, we are medicating these kids from an early age. They are penalized for male behavior in school. You can blame them, but they have been subjected to cruel treatment. Not just the govt to blame, terrible helicopter parenting as well.
I blame "participation" trophies.
A generation was raised and taught that if they simply participate, they get the same rewards as everyone else.
Well, life doesn't work that way. There are winners and there are losers.
In real life, losers don't get trophies.