Many times I have heard men I barely know complain that their wife changed completely with marriage. No idea why they would complain to me.
I wonder if these men cohabited with their girlfriends before marrying them.
And the same thing happens to women with husbands.
The dating culture is one build on false pretenses. You are always on your best behavior, looking your best, being accommodating because it’s just a date and not something you are looking at dealing with for the next 30-40 years.
People in love get carried away with their feelings and it clouds their judgment.
Then they wake up some day to reality and have no tools with which to cope.