I’m not a man - but there are plenty of very good and non-jaundiced men here, who can convince you - if they have any inclination to approach someone as obviously angry and closed-minded as you are.
Being grounded in reality isnt anger or close minded.
Your response is just an attempt to dismiss a viewpoint you dont particularly like by caling it anger and the person expressing it, close minded.
Shame tactics and nsults shut down discussion and information exchange, and as you used them, you show you have no genuine desire to discuss the issue, and instead just want to shut me up because yu didnt like whatI said.
I unfortunately struggle to find what’s wrong with what SAM is saying. I wish I could say he’s full of it, but he isn’t .
I do mortgage lending and see many peoples finances .
Very unfortunate to see divorced guys with little to their name financially and find out an ex wife cleaned out their 401k or has a claim on their pension in a divorce .
Extremely rare to see the ex husband do this to the ex wife .
Divorce is a horrific thing .
It destroys families and hurts children a great deal.
But it is very one sided against men from what I have seen.