Your post illustrates yet again, you have no idea what you’re talking about.
Go ahead, convince me how great a deal marriage is for a man in America, today.
I’m not a man - but there are plenty of very good and non-jaundiced men here, who can convince you - if they have any inclination to approach someone as obviously angry and closed-minded as you are.
Most courts do a very good job of splitting up the assets fairly between the woman and her lawyer. Was there any other party who is supposed to get any of the assets?
And then there are the liabilities. Guess which party gets those.