“Yet they don’t tell young men the truth.”
I tell every young man, which by happenstance the discussion comes up, to take their future into their own hands, put on a condom and never marry.
And there ought to be a mandatory course in high school and boot camp: The unwritten, binding clauses of the marriage contract.
That contract is with all levels of US government and most other nations. Not with the girl that wants you to sign it.
Your advice is unbiblical