[hal ogen]

If your kids and grandkids put up 50% of college costs in a bank account you control, I can see helping. Just don’t sign any loans. If the kids don’t work and save, they might well take advantage of you...unless you get a kick out of being an enabler.

[kiryandil]

If your kids and grandkids put up 50% of college costs in a bank account you control, I can see helping. Just don’t sign any loans. If the kids don’t work and save, they might well take advantage of you...unless you get a kick out of being an enabler.

Excellent advice.