There is a lot of disdain generally for women here. I am sorry that people have been hurt, but the general notion that women (or feminists) won’t allow you to assert yourselves only betrays the weakness they already perceive and disrespect. Play the man.
Although I agree with you that there is some bitterness towards women here, you can’t discount the legal atmosphere that has been created by feminists, who hope to turn America into a matriarchy, where men supply the sperm and they cannot expect legal protections from mere accusations.
Look how many guys, in recent years, have lost their jobs and their academic careers over mere accusations, even when the accusations proved completely false.