If the pressure was actually “released”, it would be impossible. Deep pockets nuisance lawsuit stuff.
I start by complaining ever so gently about sex. (She isn’t interested.)
Then I wait a month or so.
Then, when we do do it, sometimes she asks to kiss me at the “opportune” time.
I make sure I’ve had a little “screwdriver” beverage while I am making coffee, or breakfast. She can smell it on my breath.
Finally, I plan a business meeting of some kind over the weekend,
and neglect to do the dishes on time.
BOOM!