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People judge married couples with different last names
NY Post ^ | 11/22/17 | Christian Gollayan

Posted on 11/24/2017 3:52:44 PM PST by Signalman

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To: exDemMom

But not in.


21 posted on 11/24/2017 4:58:45 PM PST by gundog (Hail to the Chief, bitches.)
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To: Sparticus
Did you know it takes exactly as much energy for a woman to lower a toilet seat as it does for a man? However, the opportunity to complain about it for two hours is just too irresistible for the average female.
22 posted on 11/24/2017 4:58:55 PM PST by fhayek
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To: JayGalt

Sorry brother, we’d have to take our ARs out to the range, give praise to the God Almighty, and talk smack about the democrats to prove me wrong. ;^)


23 posted on 11/24/2017 4:59:13 PM PST by stevio (God, guns, guts.)
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To: Signalman

Yes i do!


24 posted on 11/24/2017 4:59:13 PM PST by chasio649 (Donald Trump is not the president we need, he is the president SJWs deserve)
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To: Ann Archy

No, often it’s professional people who have degrees in their own name and have established themselves.

Liberals only jumped on to something that sounded cool, conservative successful women have been keeping their own names for 40 years. To me the hyphenated stuff is silly but people make their own choices.


25 posted on 11/24/2017 5:01:08 PM PST by JayGalt (Let Trump Be Trump)
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To: stevio

It’s a cultural thing. Women in other cultures - Spain, most Latin American countries, and a large number of other places throughout the world - don’t change their last names. And here in the US women often don’t change their last names, not because they are making some kind of feminist statement, but because they are already known by the birth names in their professional sphere. It’s very complicated to redo all of that stuff, and more complicated still to hyphenate or add another last name. So this has nothing to do with elderly bra-burners. Generally, the child still has the father’s last name.


26 posted on 11/24/2017 5:02:07 PM PST by livius
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To: fruser1

LOL

Any woman who won’t take their Husbands last name isn’t worth marrying.

Any broad that tells me I need to put the seat down is going to have to quickly reassess her whole situation.


27 posted on 11/24/2017 5:02:45 PM PST by Rome2000 (SMASH THE CPUSA-SIC SEMPER TYRANNIS-CLOSE ALL MOSQUES)
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To: stevio

Lucy Stone, a suffragette in Massachusetts spurred the start of the movement for women to retain their birth names when in 1855 she married and refused to use her husband’s name. In doing so, she was denied the right to vote in an 1879 Massachusetts school board election, according to a Marquette Law Review.

Another notable figure in the fight to keep maiden names was Frances Perkins, the first woman appointed to the U.S. Cabinet. In 1913, Perkins married Paul Caldwell Wilson, and chose to keep her maiden name for career reasons. In The Woman Behind the New Deal: The Life and Legacy of Frances Perkins, Social Security, Unemployment Insurance, author Kirstin Downey writes that the move spurred resentment from social conservatives, and it became a public news story.

“I suppose I had been somewhat touched by feminist ideas and that one of the reasons that I kept my maiden name,” Perkins once said in an interview. “My whole generation was, I suppose, the first generation that openly and actively asserted – at least some of us did – the separateness of women and their personal independence in the family relationship.

http://time.com/4153417/how-american-women-fought-to-keep-their-maiden-names-after-marriage/


28 posted on 11/24/2017 5:05:34 PM PST by JayGalt (Let Trump Be Trump)
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To: Michael.SF.
I married my wife in '75, she kept her name, I kept mine. We were young, naïve and Democrats. Now we are older, wiser, Republicans, she still has her name and I still have mine.

Back around that time, when it was pretty clear we would marry, my wife said to me, "Does it matter to you if I take your name?". To which, I replied, "Does it matter if we get married?".

I was mostly, but not completely, joking, but she took my name and changed her middle name to her maiden name.

29 posted on 11/24/2017 5:06:58 PM PST by Pearls Before Swine (White is the new Black.)
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To: Hodar

Our 40 years puts the lie to your assumption.


30 posted on 11/24/2017 5:07:06 PM PST by JayGalt (Let Trump Be Trump)
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To: fhayek

I think the point that men pretend not to understand is that women often have to get to the bathroom in a hurry, especially after a few children. The extra time to play with the seat is not there.


31 posted on 11/24/2017 5:08:59 PM PST by JayGalt (Let Trump Be Trump)
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To: stevio

After that my ear’d be screaming so we’d be even.


32 posted on 11/24/2017 5:09:47 PM PST by JayGalt (Let Trump Be Trump)
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To: JayGalt

.7 seconds. Just saying.


33 posted on 11/24/2017 5:10:20 PM PST by fhayek
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To: fhayek

Have 4 kids then talk to me.


34 posted on 11/24/2017 5:11:47 PM PST by JayGalt (Let Trump Be Trump)
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To: Signalman

35 posted on 11/24/2017 5:13:36 PM PST by dfwgator
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To: Signalman

MGTOW.
There you will find true peace of mind.
I learned this in the 80’s.
I am an early adopter...


36 posted on 11/24/2017 5:18:04 PM PST by glasseye ("24 hours in a day, 24 beers in a case. Coincidence? I think not." ~ H. L. Mencken)
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To: JayGalt

I have 4 kids. All girls. ;^)


37 posted on 11/24/2017 5:19:00 PM PST by fhayek
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To: LostInBayport

Not at all, and I should know.

Sometimes our families have hyphenated names.


38 posted on 11/24/2017 5:23:39 PM PST by Chickensoup (Leftists today are speaking as if they plan to commence to commit genocide against conservatives.)
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To: fhayek

Congrats. 3 boys, 1 girl. Seats in our house down unless in use.


39 posted on 11/24/2017 5:24:15 PM PST by JayGalt (Let Trump Be Trump)
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To: Michael.SF.

I’m curious. My wife and I married in 1977. She took my last name. We have been married, mostly happily, for over 40 years. You say you were married in 1975 and both kept your names assigned at birth, but only had 39 wonderful years together. Did you have 3 miserable years? I’m just curious.


40 posted on 11/24/2017 5:25:31 PM PST by groveler
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