Who said it was supposed to be easy?
Boohoo.
How old are you? I’m curious as I see a sea change in difference between marriage for somebody born in 1950 and in 1990.
It’s not a question of “who said it was supposed to be easy?”
I think today’s millenials, especially men, are doing a cost benefit analysis. And the potential downside is 1) terrible. 2) 30% to 50% chance of failure....for a first marriage depending on who’s stats you believe.
Are you going to tell these men to just ignore the risks associated with marriage nowadays?