I don't understand your post. I was up to my ears in the gay lifestyle from the 70s through the 80s. Many of my friends died of AIDs. I remember when we thought it was Poppers that caused death! I visited several of my friends in New York Hospital who were dying - unknown to all of us - of Kaposi skin cancer. It was a complete horror. I knew fairly early on that their life style was contributing to their death. What I didn't know - and am still learning - is that meningitis is also related to their life style. My dear friend - his name was Rodney - may have died from his way of life. He was a lovely man whose private life (very typical of a gay man and a straight woman) was unknown to me.
I wish freepers knew more about the lives of urban gay men, straight women and their relationships.
I will continue to try and educate people on the destructiveness and hatred that gay men bring to western civilization. And that may include freepers’ hero of the month, Milo Yiannopolis.