I have relatives whose last name is Gay, & I find it offensive that the LGBT community has stolen the definition of that word & changed it into something that I find despicable — while at the same time turning what used to be considered disgraceful into some thing that is now considered normal.
But then again, Progressives have stolen the meaning of the word “liberal”, too (I think it may have been FDR who completely transformed the meaning of that word).
Years ago, on the east coast, we had a friend last name ‘Horny.’
It’s probably hard to believe, but society wasn’t using that word then as it is used now - -
We lost track of him, so have no idea how he handled the current meaning of his last name - - -
Back in the day, I remember him being a good sport, though.