Bodies in the solar system tend to rotate about an axis parallel to the sun’s axis, and in the same direction. Neptune is a big exception, and there is much theorizing as to why.
Of course, the general phenomenon is taken to be a result of the formation of the solar system from a rotating disk.
I don’t believe other nearby stellar systems are thought to share the rotational orientation of the Solar system. That’s an interesting question though.
I think you mean Uranus is the exception — its axis of rotation is nearly in the ecliptic, while its system of moons is pretty much normal. Neptune’s basically normal but has a wild group of moons.