Edmond is always a good choice especially with kids.
I agree, Edmund is the only choice for me. Lots of professionals, nice properties and not too expensive.
Ditto on Edmond. One statistic: Edmond has the highest per capita of college degrees in the state. Very good public schools - I understand that this may not be a priority for you, but it indicates the level of parent involvement, etc. It is about 20 minutes to downtown OKC and had good restaraunts and kids activities, like sports etc.