Piedmont would be a good choice for what you say you want. Mustang too. Deer Creek area, great schools. Even Bethany is not bad.
Correct on all points.
Wife and I loved our 7 years in OK. It would be easy to move back there, but my family has lived in this county in Texas since 1889. And we have spent last 10 years taking care of sick family memebers here. This is home but we still have many friends in OK.