You know what really confuses? Straight American guys who have spent some time in Europe. They come back from their Semester Abroad and set off my gaydar like crazy.
(All the *real* men got killed off in the Crusades, WW I , and WW II.)
Cheers!
“Straight American guys who have spent some time in Europe”
I had to laugh - have you seen the musical Legally Blonde - there is a whole courtroom scene where they are wondering if the defendant is “gay or European” and singing about it -and then the AH HA moment - Gay And European.
It’s hilarious, but maybe one has to be there.