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To: naturalman1975
I'm really sorry, but I gotta say something to that post. Any guy who would throw his kid off a bridge probably SHOULDN'T have any sort of custody. And I don't care if his ex wife has his gonads in a bench grinder. And just to make it fair? The same applies if the situation was reversed and the wife threw the child off the bridge when faced with a custody hearing that might not go her way.

The only victim here was four. And, NO, I don't care to get into a debate about daddy rights. Daddy's rights evaporated on the bridge.

19 posted on 01/30/2009 4:45:54 AM PST by Hi Heels (Now here at the Rock we have two rules. Rule #1 obey all rules. Rule #2 no writing on the walls...)
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To: Hi Heels

Yes, in this case it seems the mom had dad pegged exactly right. He should have had supervised visitation with his children.


22 posted on 01/30/2009 5:47:53 AM PST by My hearts in London - Everett (Remember the 3 Rs: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.)
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To: Hi Heels

The point is that this man has never been identified as having any psychological problems in the past. Now, one day after a court hearing - and note that, I’m not talking about a decisions that might not go his way, the case had already been heard - this happens.

The court decision wasn’t based on his state of mind, because there was no apparent reason for anyone to be worried about that. It was based on other factors.

We don’t know all the details of this case, yet, but the Family Court in Australia is often extremely hostile towards fathers in custody hearings even when the father is clearly a good father, and even when the mother clearly isn’t the best mother. Unless a woman is actually beating the children, the chances of getting custody are remote. I’ve seen a lot of men brought low by unfair hearings.

Nothing can come close to excusing what this man has done but he may have been exposed to stresses that no person should have to deal with.

The bottom line is that we all want children to be safe. No, this shouldn’t have happened whatever the provocation, but pretending that there may not have been unfairness in the courts involved in what has happened isn’t going to make children safer.


23 posted on 01/30/2009 4:31:29 PM PST by naturalman1975 ("America was under attack. Australia was immediately there to help." - John Winston Howard)
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