[ravingnutter]

Congratulations! My husband celebrated 10 years last October, he had the same type of cancer you had, his left kidney was removed and his doctor said his recovery was truly a miracle. Then he ended up having an emergency triple bypass last year. Although his torso now looks like Frankenstein’s monster and I am still waiting for this “new man” his doctor told me he would be, I still cherish every day with him. I will pray for a continued clean bill of health for you!

[grame]

Be patient. It takes a long time. My husband had a 5 way. And is doing wonderfully but it did take him a long time to get his confidence that something wasn't going to happen to his incision(which did, part of it got infected but healed quickly) and then that his heart was fine. But after 5 years we have only had to go to the heart dr to get permission to have 4 herniated discs repaired.