Don’t worry about her possessions, that is not the issue. The issue is that you need to set ground rules RIGHT NOW about how you and your wife will relate to each other and your mother in law. If you don’t, it will destroy your marriage.. happens all the time.
Already taken care of. I brought the subject up to my wife in the first place, at that time I told her, “There will be rules. I won’t act like she’s another kid, but, there will be rules.” Then laid them out.
You’re right about the ground rules. You have to do it from the get go. My mom lives with my sister and it has created tension from time to time and laying ground rules early on was not something my sister did. Sometimes you wonder who pays the bills over there, my mom or my sister and her husband.
Also, if you have kids, you’ll need to lay ground rules regarding the kids.
Perhaps your MIL is a nice lady and not the controlling bossy type, but if she’s the type who tries to take over, be careful.
As for her stuff, you sure you don’t want to keep it in storage for a while, until you’re sure you’re okay with the new living arrangements?
I have read rumors that “the real” Ron Jeremy is a conservatie and a member at Free Republic.
Can you confirm that as fact?
100% f’ing A right dude. My MIL moved in with us for 1 1/2 and it was horrible.