[pandoraou812]

I really doubt she wanted to be helped.I think she had problems from childhood that she couldn't come to terms with after seeing that tape she made to her mother. Sometimes people just don't want the help. They know just what they are doing and are hellbent on doing it. You can try all you want but until that person decides that they have a problem nothing works. I had a brother like that. We tried every which way to help him for the last 20 years. Finally he pushed everyone away and disappeared. Didn't find out he was dead until 5 months after he died and I had to find it on the internet. Prayers for ANS and her children.

[mel]

Smith really kept the fires of hatred towards her mother burning. Enough already, there are few people who have a perfect childhood. Even if her childhood was far from perfect, there are thousands more who had it worse