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Prepping with non-preppers: Don’t burn bridges before SHTF
starvation.news ^ | 9/1/21 | Zoey Sky

Posted on 09/02/2021 4:05:13 PM PDT by Roman_War_Criminal

There are many misconceptions about preppers, such as they’re weird hermits who hoard supplies. But nothing could be farther from the truth.

Compared to non-preppers, preppers are simply people who take the time to prepare for disasters before anything bad happens. And if you’re a prepper worried about your non-prepper friends, consider teaching them how to prep so they can take care of themselves when disaster strikes.

Are you prepared to teach your friends how to prep? Before SHTF, whether it’s a natural disaster or a long-term power outage, preppers probably already have a sizeable stockpile of supplies along with gear, firearms and ammo.

But what about your non-prepper friends? Have your personal relationships suffered because your friends don’t understand why you prep?

Did you lose your temper and cut off ties with friends or even family members who don’t understand your lifestyle and prepping priorities?

Instead of burning bridges with non-prepper family members and friends, try teaching your loved ones why you’re prepping before anything disastrous happens.

This ensures that when you’re facing disaster, you have a better chance of surviving with more people who share the same values you do.

How to convince your friends to prep Conversations with non-preppers can lead to arguments, but don’t lose your temper while having the preparedness talk with your loved ones.

If you’re not sure how to start, here are some tips on how to encourage loved ones to start prepping:

Don’t try to scare them

The scare tactic won’t always work when you’re trying to convince someone to start prepping. This can backfire on you and this is the fastest way to start an argument.

Focus on real, possible scenarios like natural disasters common in your area and the advantages of prepping before SHTF, not after.

Encourage them to start small if their budget is an issue

While having the prepping talk, your friends might become hesitant once they realize they have to spend money to prep. It’s true that prepping can be expensive. It also takes a lot of time and energy to set up a stockpile.

But if money is an issue, tell them it’s fine to start small, as long as they start a.s.a.p. Teach them about simple and easy projects like how to prepare a bug-out bag.

If they want to start a food stockpile, teach them that even if they only buy one or two extra items while getting groceries, if they make it a habit they will soon have a stockpile that will last them at least a couple of days.

Teach them how they can save money by starting a food pantry

If your friends aren’t worried about natural disasters, you might get their attention by teaching them how prepping and starting a food pantry can help them save money.

Stocking up on food now ensures that they have the supplies they need when SHTF and before prices skyrocket, like it did during the pandemic.

Here’s a list of food items they should stock up on if they want to start their survival stockpile:

Apple cider vinegar

Baking powder

Baking soda

Beans

Breakfast cereals

Canned fruit

Canned meat

Canned vegetables

Coffee and tea

Cooking oil

Dried corn and grains

Dried fruit

Flour

Nuts

Pasta

Peanut butter

Powdered milk

Rice

Salt

Soups

Spaghetti sauce

Spices

Sugar

Whole grains

Watch and discuss a disaster movie with them

Does your family love watching movies? Try to watch a disaster movie with them and eventually steer the conversation towards prepping.

If they know you’re a prepper, you can talk about how you would prepare for a similar scenario using your skills or gear, which can help convince them about the benefits of being prepared before SHTF.

Give them useful prepping gifts

Everyone loves gifts, even preppers. For birthdays or the holidays, give your loved ones a prepping kit or a useful item like a multi-tool. Teach them how to use it and they might just remember it when disaster strikes.

Talk respectfully to your audience

The prepping conversation isn’t always easy, even if you’re talking to loved ones.

Remember to be respectful so you can convince them why you prep. Do not call them stupid for refusing to listen. Be patient and explain things properly when they seem interested and ask questions.

Live your life while you’re prepping Things aren’t always doom and gloom. While the situation is peaceful and quiet, remember to take a break and enjoy your life.

If your loved ones still don’t understand why you prep, agree to disagree and show them the other benefits of prepping, like having a home garden with fresh fruits and vegetables or a food pantry that helps you save a bit of money.

Prepping doesn’t have to revolve around survival skills and firearms. Let your friends know that buying a couple of extra cans of food can help a lot when disaster strikes and you are unable to leave the house to buy more supplies.

If you’re tired of explaining things, keep prepping on your own. Buy gear for your stockpile and keep learning new survival skills.

If the conversations about the value of prepping aren’t enough to convince them, leave them be and continue prepping on your own. When SHTF and they see how you get by thanks to your preps, they might just realize that there is value in being a prepper.

Don’t burn bridges with non-preppers. First, try to encourage other people to prep by talking about the benefits of being prepared. If they’re not convinced, at least you tried.

Visit Preparedness.news to read more articles about the many benefits of prepping.


TOPICS: Conspiracy; Food; Gardening; Society
KEYWORDS: foodsupply; prepping; shortages; shtf
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1 posted on 09/02/2021 4:05:13 PM PDT by Roman_War_Criminal
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To: Roman_War_Criminal

If you live in the city, you will have big problems if anything goes wrong, because your neighbors problems become your problems.

If you live out in the sticks and prepare, there is a lot of room for error—and most likely your neighbors will be preppers just like you (whether they call themselves that or not).


2 posted on 09/02/2021 4:10:31 PM PDT by cgbg (A kleptocracy--if they can keep it. Think of it as the Cantillon Effect in action.)
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To: Roman_War_Criminal

Big Tech doesn’t say to help them, just report them.


3 posted on 09/02/2021 4:11:44 PM PDT by caseinpoint (Don't get thickly involved in thin things.)
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To: Roman_War_Criminal

I live in a rural area, but tend to keep my mouth shut about my preps.


4 posted on 09/02/2021 4:13:14 PM PDT by Veggie Todd (Proudly posting comments without reading the articles since 2002.)
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To: Veggie Todd

👍
Yeah I lean more towards your train of thought than what the article suggests.


5 posted on 09/02/2021 4:14:08 PM PDT by Roman_War_Criminal (Jesus + Something = Nothing ; Jesus + Nothing = Everything )
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To: cgbg

What type of issues do you mean? I’m not being snarky; I simply don’t understand your point.


6 posted on 09/02/2021 4:14:57 PM PDT by gloryblaze
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To: cgbg

The waitress at the restaurant I ate at today (a no mask no distancing state) was complaining that the walmart was a 1/2 hour drive. The town is a ways out.


7 posted on 09/02/2021 4:16:01 PM PDT by dynachrome ("I will not be reconstructed, and I do not give a damn.")
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To: gloryblaze

Sure, one example—your urban apartment complex has dozens of people who do not have enough food and can’t get any.

Are you going to feed them or ignore them? Bad choices you don’t want to have to make.


8 posted on 09/02/2021 4:17:15 PM PDT by cgbg (A kleptocracy--if they can keep it. Think of it as the Cantillon Effect in action.)
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To: Roman_War_Criminal

I gave my sister a trillion dollar zimbabwe note for her birthday. She didn’t get it, but she loves demented joe and won’t hear the truth.


9 posted on 09/02/2021 4:19:40 PM PDT by dynachrome ("I will not be reconstructed, and I do not give a damn.")
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To: Roman_War_Criminal

OMG! That is a picture of white supremacy!


10 posted on 09/02/2021 4:24:45 PM PDT by 17th Miss Regt
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To: cgbg; gloryblaze

In an urban environment, when the ghetto rats get hungry, they are going to go to where the food is, and try to take it. It’s not like they have full pantries and freezers — many eat takeout on a daily basis.

Where will they figure there is food? Where the white people are. They will go from building to building, kicking in doors, unless the building is defended well enough.

If you are rural, it’s not that huge an advantage ... gang bangers have cars, and they can concentrate a crowd against an isolated farmhouse.


11 posted on 09/02/2021 4:25:28 PM PDT by SauronOfMordor (A Leftist can't enjoy life unless they are controlling, hurting, or destroying others)
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To: Roman_War_Criminal
Here’s a list of food items they should stock up on if they want to start their survival stockpile:

Might want to start with water and TP.

12 posted on 09/02/2021 4:26:48 PM PDT by Pollard (#*&% Communism)
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To: 17th Miss Regt

The horror that a few responsible folks happen to be white.

Too bad...


13 posted on 09/02/2021 4:28:40 PM PDT by Roman_War_Criminal (Jesus + Something = Nothing ; Jesus + Nothing = Everything )
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To: Veggie Todd

“tend to keep my mouth shut about my preps.”

I always trust the government. All you need is 3 days of food, right?/s

“Food (at least a three-day supply of non-perishable food)”

https://www.ready.gov/kit


14 posted on 09/02/2021 4:32:24 PM PDT by dynachrome ("I will not be reconstructed, and I do not give a damn.")
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To: SauronOfMordor

Rural means a long distance from the cities.

Rural means hard to get to, far away from interstates and major roads.

Nobody comes out here looking for trouble, because nobody comes out here at all....

The perfect is the enemy of the good—you just want to stack the odds in your favor as best you can.


15 posted on 09/02/2021 4:32:45 PM PDT by cgbg (A kleptocracy--if they can keep it. Think of it as the Cantillon Effect in action.)
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To: Roman_War_Criminal

The first rule of Prep Club is don’t talk about Prep Club.

L


16 posted on 09/02/2021 4:33:52 PM PDT by Lurker (Peaceful coexistence with the Left is not possible. Stop pretending that it is. )
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To: Lurker

Exactly—and that is why the original article is extremely dumb.

You don’t talk to _anybody_ about your preps.


17 posted on 09/02/2021 4:35:05 PM PDT by cgbg (A kleptocracy--if they can keep it. Think of it as the Cantillon Effect in action.)
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To: cgbg
I thought more along the lines of the garden getting out of hand and looking like heck and the weed seeds blowing over to contaminate the neighbors' properties.

I see you mean to not turn on too many lights at night if you have a generator humming, etc, or mentioning your stash too often. Mum's the word.

18 posted on 09/02/2021 4:35:17 PM PDT by gloryblaze
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To: gloryblaze

I mean do not mention your stash at all—ever.

We do not have a generator because in these parts you can hear a generator five miles away—I kid you not.

There are a few people in town who have them, and everybody knows exactly who they are—you don’t want to be that person.


19 posted on 09/02/2021 4:38:09 PM PDT by cgbg (A kleptocracy--if they can keep it. Think of it as the Cantillon Effect in action.)
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To: cgbg
... the original article is extremely dumb...

I have to agree. Plus, why do people bring their stuff back outside to take picture in a clean basket when they have obviously spent a long time at the sink gleaning and cleaning up a few choice items?

20 posted on 09/02/2021 4:38:47 PM PDT by gloryblaze
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