Wow ... Mrs Lurker packs a 629..... Cool !!
It’s a bit large for daily carry. For that she has a 2” titanium Taurus in .44 Spl. She doesn’t care for semi auto pistols. I say give the lady what she likes.
For that pistol I load the same bullet over about 4.5 grains of Bullseye. (from memory) Ballistically it’s a .45 ACP.
Hope your well.
L