I can do both but wouldn’t describe myself primarily in those terms on a dating site lol
agreed....then never went to such a site....not a condemnation, just saying there was no such thing when I was in the business of looking for ladies....
took a young nurse(obviously an east coast lib type) home to my apartment back in the late 1970s...
...she was turned off by the gun rack on the wall....
not a deal breaker but she acted as if they would jump off the wall and commit mayhem.
obviously I had not talked about them at the club that we met and the subsequent first date that ended at her apartment.....
suffice it to say that not many dates occurred after that(truth be known I don’t remember if there was other dates after that)